Clubbing

I don't like the feeling when my bf go clubs and I stay at home..nowadays always stay up late with his friends but when with me,he used to say he's tired,sleepy,moody,need to do assignment,etc.. Is it very difficult to spend time with me?? Is yes then I won't bother you anymore. . Won't ask you for movie,dinner,shopping,etc until you ask me yourself. I know i'm annoying..i'm trying to be the quiet one..